I am so sorry things have been so stressful for you - that really sucks. **hugs** Like you said, your writing is supposed to be a stress-reliever, when it starts to feel like just one more thing that you have to get done you definitely need to take a step back and relax as much as you can for a while.
Take care of yourself and no worries, we'll be here when you're ready to start posting again. In the meantime, if there's anything I can do - even if it's just a virtual shoulder - I'm here!